We hear (in scripture) that the foolish man built his house on sand and the wise man built his house on rock.

But I tend to want to be extra sure I'm safe, so I tend to battle-test things to pieces.

We hear that is is easier to destroy than it is to create.

Thus I play the Devil to my own mind and situation.

Perhaps like an Anakin who isn't prepared to lose his life to a degree to gain more back?

Forget being so darned certain?  Ease up.  Don't be so serious?  Then live?

Just some opinions -- I haven't cracked it yet.